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Make Your Ex Regret Losing You - And Reignite Their Obsession

The step-by-step system to trigger their regret, shift the power dynamic, and make them chase you instead.

"They Always Come Back"

After letting go and focusing on herself with the program, Thida transformed her life—and every single Avoidant came back, proving the power of self-focus and growth.

- Thida

"They Always Come Back"

After letting go and focusing on herself with the program, Thida transformed her life—and every single Avoidant came back, proving the power of self-focus and growth.

- Thida

Does This Sound Like You?

You constantly replay conversations in your head, wondering what you did wrong.

You feel powerless when an avoidant partner pulls away—and even more powerless trying to bring them back.

You’ve tried “no contact” or other advice, but the results have been disappointing.

You’re tired of guessing what they’re thinking or why they’re so distant.

You feel stuck in a loop, unable to move forward or reconnect the way you want.

You crave clarity, understanding, and real tools to break free from the cycle.

You’re not alone...

This is exactly why the ex recovery program exists—to help you regain clarity, rebuild confidence, and thrive in relationships with or without them.

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What Is The Ex Recovery Program?

The Ex Recovery Program is a one-of-a-kind community designed to help you navigate the complex dynamics of relationships with avoidants, whether you're in the midst of a breakup, trying to reconnect, or focusing on personal growth.

Our mission is simple: to empower you to thrive—emotionally, mentally, and relationally—regardless of whether you reconnect with an avoidant partner or decide to move forward without them.

The goal of The Ex Recovery Program is to provide you with "just in time" insights, strategies, and support from like-minded members, expert moderators, and coaches who understand the challenges of avoidant relationships.

Through timely resources, actionable advice, and a supportive community, we’re here to guide you through this journey, helping you gain clarity, confidence, and healthier connections.

You Won’t Experience A Community Like This Anywhere Else

Since Joining:

"When I did finally contact him we were completely different people for the better. Now we are married!"

- Jesse

Since Joining:

"He told me we would never get back together. I came to find he didn't mean any of it."

- Sarah Michelle

Since Joining:

"My coaching that I got from the community was instrumental in who I am today. It's just the encouragement, the focus, the kind of constant accountability. I love that. I love that. And there's a lot of amazing people in the group."

- Bethany

Since Joining:

"was trying new things. I was surfing again. I was I used to sing. I was singing again. And he's like, looking at all this. And he's like, holy shit. Yeah, like I missed out on all of this, that I could have been a part."

- Lee

Since Joining:

"He came over. It's a 35-minute drive from his place. He stood outside. He said all the things. He said, "I want to be with you. I miss you. I want to spend the rest of my life with you. I told my kids that I want to move in with you at the end of my lease. I still want to marry you in two years," all these things."

- Jenny

Since Joining:

He asked me to meet his family again, I think that's when he was like, "Okay, I'm ready," and two or three days later he asked me to be his girlfriend again.

- Rachel

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Everything You Get Access To

The Ex Recovery Program Community

A private, supportive space where people navigating relationship challenges come together to share insights, gain guidance, and make breakthroughs. Inside, you’ll find expert-led coaching, interactive Q&A sessions, personalized advice, and a network of like-minded individuals who understand exactly what you’re going through. It’s more than a community—it’s your hub for clarity, growth, and transformation.

Weekly Livestreams with Founders and Coaches

Get real-time answers and insights during live Q&A sessions on avoidant relationships, personal growth, and reconnecting.

Active Expert Support:

Coaches and trained moderators answer your questions directly in the community.

Guest Speakers:

Learn from experts in relationships, attachment styles, anxiety, and more.

Battle Buddy Pairings:

Be matched with a partner for one-on-one encouragement and accountability.

A Supportive Network:

Connect with thousands of like-minded members sharing their insights and journeys.

Instant Access To All of Chris Seiter’s Legendary Course Library

The Ex Boyfriend Recovery Program:

Navigate breakups with a specific focus on ex boyfriends, no contact, and reconnecting—on your terms.

The Ex Girlfriend Recovery Program

Navigate breakups with a specific focus on ex girlfriends, no contact, and reconnecting—on your terms.

The Texting Bible

Master communicating with avoidants with proven strategies to craft messages that get results.

Ungettable

Become your most confident, magnetic self and draw others toward you.

The No Contact Rule Book:

Master one of the most powerful tools for clarity and results.

Inspire His Desire:

Build lasting attraction and intimacy using psychological insights.

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What Past Members Have Said About The Ex Recovery Program

"Long story short, we got married that June and we’ll be married two years this June 28th."

-Maureen

"I didn't just make myself busy. I think like, I realized that I needed a support system the most. And, you know, doing life alone, especially after being in a long term relationship like that, as serious as it was. It was lacking a little bit and so I just built it up as best as I could."

-Aaron

"He didn't tell me that he wanted me back until a few hours later after that interaction because we were just hanging out with his family having fun, did our Costco trip. Just fun stuff. And it was later in that night, we were just watching a movie and everything. And then he's like, "I have to tell you something." I was like, "What's up?" He's like, "I want you back."

- Becca

"Love you all!"

"I'm engaged!"

"We are officially back together!"

"You are everything I could ever ask for!"

"I will be getting married this summer"

"My fearful avoidant came back!"

"They ALWAYS come back. Every. Single.One."

"I love this version of him!"

"It's finally happening. We announced we are engaged!"

"Officially together 1 month after my first reach out."

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Four Layers of Accountability in The Ex Recovery Program

Here’s the truth:

We can give you the most effective strategies and tools to reconnect with an avoidant partner or heal from a breakup—but if you don’t show up and take action, it won’t matter.

Another truth? It’s incredibly hard to do this alone.

That’s why The Ex Recovery Program is built around four powerful layers of accountability to ensure you stay on track and reach your goals.

1. Peer-to-Peer Accountability

You’ll be surrounded by members who are starting at the same or similar point as you. The synergy of shared experiences and lessons learned creates a strong foundation of support.

Our Battle Buddy Program is a prime example. You’ll be paired with someone who understands your journey and can provide encouragement, advice, and accountability when you need it most. Together, you’ll navigate the challenges and celebrate the victories.

2. Veteran Member Accountability

You’ll have access to members further along in their journeys, who have faced similar challenges and found ways to thrive.

These veteran members provide valuable insights into what worked for them—and what didn’t. Their experiences will serve as both a roadmap and inspiration, showing you what’s possible when you stay committed. You’ll also have their encouragement cheering you on every step of the way.

3. Expert Accountability

You won’t go through this alone. The founders of The Reconnection Room, along with expert coaches and dedicated moderators, are here to guide you.

They’ll provide you with tailored strategies, timely advice, and unwavering support to help you grow stronger, emotionally healthier, and more secure in your relationships. Our team is invested in your success every step of the way.

4. Self Accountability

At the heart of it all is you. Your determination, courage, and commitment to using the tools, resources, and support available in The Reconnection Room will drive your success.

We’re here to guide and support you, but the real transformation comes from within.

"I feel very happy, and slightly stunned, that he's come through at last."

"This program works and is super helpful if you are going through a rough time in your life."

"He's very expressive in telling me he loves me."

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Take A Sneak Peak Inside The Community

We’re here to help you navigate the aftermath of relationship challenges and guide you toward clarity, connection, and emotional resilience…

Accountability

Four layers of accountability to help you after your breakup

Weekly Live Q & A's

Our Coaches and Founders are there to help answer your questions

Battle Buddy Pairings

We will do our very best to pair you with an individual who is in a similar situation.

Enhanced Privacy

In the past, Members have worried about whether their ex might notice them in a Facebook Group. We've removed that concern by making our Community secret.

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Join For The Battle Buddy Experience

We'll partner you up with someone who understands what you're going through.

Take Our Battle Buddy Questionnaire

We ask you questions about your breakup, age, gender, etc to help ensure the best pairing for you.

Pairings Every Wednesday

Every Wednesday we seek to pair Buddies together.

Friendship

Form a lasting friendship with your Battle Buddy.

Accountability

Battle Buddies are one of the layers of accountability mentioned above.

More Feedback From Members

"We're engaged!"

"He proposed!!! Surprised me on our walk by the lake."

"Yesterday after a long conversation, my ex asked for me back."

"Avoidant and I are still going strong!"

"This program really does work, but for me, it helped me recognize the real issue, which was that I NEEDED to practice some self love first."

"Success story: total time it took was 3 months"

"We are now back together! Actually we have been back together for 2 months already."

"The program DID work for me since me and my avoidant have been back together since November."

"Avoidant and I got married just 3 days ago!"

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Frequently Asked Questions

How will "The Ex Recovery Program" help me reconnect with my Avoidant or improve my relationship?

"The Ex Recovery Program" gives you the tools and strategies to understand your relationship dynamics, particularly with avoidant partners, so you can approach reconnection in a way that’s emotionally healthy and effective. Whether your goal is to rebuild your relationship or move forward with confidence, the program equips you with proven psychological insights and actionable steps to guide you every step of the way.

Is this program only for people trying to get their ex back?

Not at all. While many members join to explore the possibility of reconnecting with an ex, "The Ex Recovery Program" also focuses on healing, gaining emotional clarity, and rebuilding your confidence. It’s designed to help you thrive, whether that means getting your ex back or finding peace and personal growth after a breakup.

What’s included in the program?

The program includes everything you need to feel supported and empowered:
- Access to an exclusive, supportive community of people who understand what you’re going through.
- Weekly livestreams with me and expert coaches to answer your questions and guide your progress.
- Full access to a catalog of programs designed to help you heal, reconnect, or move on.
- Guest speakers who provide unique insights into relationships and personal growth.
- The "Battle Buddy" system, where you’re paired with someone for mutual accountability and support.
- And more—everything is tailored to meet you where you are in your journey.

How much time do I need to commit to get results?

You can tailor your experience to fit your schedule. Whether you have 15 minutes a day or a few hours a week, the program is designed to be flexible. You can access the resources at your own pace, join livestreams when it suits you, and engage with the community as much or as little as you like. Your progress is entirely in your hands.

How is "The Ex Recovery Program" different from other breakup recovery programs?

Unlike generic advice you might find elsewhere, "The Ex Recovery Program" is tailored to the emotional and psychological challenges of navigating breakups, particularly with avoidant partners. Our unique blend of community support, expert coaching, and actionable strategies ensures you’re not just recovering—you’re growing. Plus, the focus on reconnecting with yourself and others in meaningful ways sets this program apart.

What if my ex or avoidant doesn’t want to reconnect—can this program still help me?

Absolutely. "The Ex Recovery Program" isn’t just about getting an ex back—it’s about helping you regain emotional clarity, self-confidence, and a sense of control over your life. Even if reconnecting with your ex isn’t possible, the tools and support in this program will help you heal and thrive in future relationships.

Is this a good fit if I’m dealing with an avoidant partner?

Yes! This program is specifically designed with avoidant dynamics in mind. You’ll learn how to navigate the unique challenges of avoidant behavior, including how to handle emotional distance, deactivating strategies, and no-contact situations. Whether you’re trying to reconnect or simply understand their behavior, this program provides the insights you need.

What if I don’t feel comfortable sharing my story in a group setting?

That’s completely fine. While the community is there for support, you’re not required to share anything you’re not comfortable with. Many members start by simply observing or using the resources on their own. When you’re ready, you can engage at your own pace and comfort level.

Our 30 Day Money Back Guarantee

We’re so confident in the value of The Ex Recovery Program that we’re offering a 30-day money-back guarantee. If you don’t feel more confident, clear, and supported within the first 30 days of joining—if you don’t see progress toward your relationship and personal goals—simply let us know. We’ll refund every penny. No questions asked, no hard feelings.This is our promise to you: take the first step toward transformation completely risk-free.